Clump #257: Resist buying clump; day fifteen of National Blog Posting Month.
Once upon a time, on a lovely late summer day, my husband’s two sisters and I were visiting gorgeous Longwood Gardens, a place impossible to sum up with one photo. Thus, I’ll intersperse a few of my many to illustrate this story. (I learned that day that the water lilies are actually growing in pots, concealed by black dye in the water!)
By the time one leaves Longwood Gardens, senses filled with all manner of beauty, an irresistible stop on the way out is the garden’s wonderful gift shop. While I was purchasing soap and hand cream with an elegant fragrance, the clerk started selling me on the merits of a thick flannel picnic blanket sitting conveniently on the counter. It had a leather-looking strap and a flap with the Longwood Gardens logo stamped on it (‘Nice souvenir,’ I thought). “It’s waterproof,” said the cashier. (‘How practical.’) “And it’s half off today for members with any purchase,” her trump card. (‘Wow, I’m a member and I’m purchasing something right now!’).
Before I could say, “I’ll take it,” I became aware of my sister-in-law Judy (on the left in the photo below) standing next to me. She was mouthing the word “No!” I leaned closer to her, and she whispered, “It’s a Clump!” Suddenly the spell was broken. You’re right! I have any number of blankets and towels at home. I did not need this one clumping up our linen cabinet or crammed into a drawer.
So today when I asked my husband whether he might want a towel warmer for Christmas, an idea I had warmed up to (sorry), his response was, “What does Judy say?” My weakness for the idea stems from warm towels given to me in the hospital this year, and the indescribable comfort they imparted. But I know he and Judy are right. It would be another piece of clutter on our floor and in our lives. Even though G. from UT can’t live without it … I guess we can.
So this clump is of the Zen koan variety. If a tree falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound? If an item of clutter is not bought, does it qualify as a clump? I say yes. I did toss out some actual stuff: a lot of catalogs, including this one. I’ve been telling myself that I don’t go out shopping and think, ‘I have to go into every store here.’ Same with catalogs. Just because it was sent to me, I do not have to look through it. I have been known to call the vendor’s customer service number and ask to be taken off their mailing list.
Admittedly, many catalogs have undeniable entertainment value. Our son and I got a good laugh at the glove phone below. He said they should advertise it as a great way to embarrass your kids!
But my favorite catalog photo today was the one below, touting the importance of good sleep during the holidays, thus the need for their mattresses:
And on that note, I’ll wish you a good night and go to bed!